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Whether you’re looking for ways to spice things up in the bedroom with the spouse you’ve been with for a decade, or you’re just trying to think up some new tricks for your next casual encounter, your search for tips and cheatseets on the subject of sex has led you to the right place. In this list of 100 guides, you’ll find advice for role playing, foreplay, losing your inhibitions, understanding the male and female bodies, tips for lesbian and gay couples, and a whole lot more.

Pleasing Her

Brush up on your female anatomy and learn how to really satisfy a woman by reading these guides.

1. A Man’s Guide to Knowing Her Sweet Spots: Get the lowdown on sweet spots like ears, lips, nape of the neck, feet, and even behind the knees.
2. How to Please Your Woman: Check out member articles and tips from Helium.com on the subject of being a better lover.
3. Women’s Sexual Anatomy: SeekWellness.com explains the female anatomy in a sexual context here.
4. How to Satisfy Any Woman: Learn how to set the mood and be more spontaneous when you read this article.
5. How Men Can Last Longer: Learn how to avoid climaxing too soon.
6. He is Too Big for Me: What Can I do to Make Sex Better?: Couples with a size problem can get tips from this article.
7. 15 Sex Tips from Women: If you really want a woman’s point of view but are too embarrassed to ask your partner, check out this list.
8. How Can I Last Longer During Sex?: Here is another guide from Kinsey Confidential that gives tips for lasting longer in bed.
9. Sex Tips: Know More About Foreplay: Find out why foreplay is so important in this article.
10. 20 Top Sex Tips for Men: The Times Online offers up great advice like "be careful with drink" and being responsible with protection and STDs.

Pleasing Him

From fellatio to massages, this list is full of tips and tricks that men love to see in the sack.

11. Wendy Williams’ Sex Advice: Get a summary and watch a clip of this new Fox morning show.
12. Sex Tips to Please Men: This simple post encourages women to really explore every part of their man’s body.
13. Will Smith on Sex: If you want an easy answer to how to please your man, read this post.
14. Better Sex Tips for Women: This blog offers a lot of great tips for women over 40 who want to experience a better sex life.
15. Male Reproductive Anatomy: Understand every part of the male reproductive area when you take a look at this diagram from the Medline Plus medical encyclopedia.
16. Thirty one tips for women to make sex great for men: Tips in this article include paying attention to the perineum, talking dirty, and being more spontaneous.
17. Oral Sex Tips for Women: Women get a crash course in blow jobs here.
18. How to Strip for Your Man: Get costume ideas and dance moves here.
19. Where has the lust gone?: This article has tips for spicing it up whenever you can.
20. Fellatio: Holistic Wisdom offers up tips for women who want to master this oral technique.

Experimenting

Here you’ll learn all about experimental sex, including reenacting porn, threesomes and more.

21. Naughty Gifts That Keep on Giving: This article shares ideas for making your own fun gifts for the bedroom. If you want to create customized undergarments for your partner, take advantage of these Customized Girl Coupons.
22. Water Play: This guide reveals different places you and your partner can bring water play into your sexual experience.
23. Explosive Tantric Sex Techniques: Learn about PC muscle contractions, teasers and more here.
24. 7 Rules for MFM Threesome: If you’re thinking of being in a two male on one female threesome, read this article first.
25. Kissing Tips: It’s never too late to become a better kisser: learn how in this Ask April piece.
26. Threesomes: A User’s Guide: Get a realistic look at how to "manage a menage a trois."
27. Porn: When it Helps and When it Hurts: Before you decide that porn is the best way to spice up your relationship, take a look at this article.
28. Better Sex Tips: Switch up your sex positions by reading about different ones here.
29. 8 Mildly Bizarre Sex Tips: Your curiosity may just get the better of you when you read about butt plugs, masks and stripper’s poles.
30. Are Sex Parties the New Vibrator?: For especially daring couples, here’s an article about the new popularity of sex parties.

Role Playing

From serious bondage to less intimidating role playing games, this list is for couples interested in all levels of sexual fantasy.

31. Infusing Fantasy into Your Sex Life: This article helps you make your wildest sex dreams come true…through fantasy. If you want to dress that part, check out this awesome costume coupon.
32. 10 Things Good Girls Can Learn from Porn Stars: Understanding that men are visual creatures, ditching routine sex tricks and showing enthusiasm are all great tips listed in this article.
33. The Art of Role Playing: Learn about different scenarios like teacher/student and artist/model here.
34. I Don’t Know how to Role Play: Cosmo answers this reader’s call for help in the role playing department.
35. Role Playing: This article believes that role playing is a major part of "the new male sexuality."
36. Why Spanking and Bondage?: If your role playing fantasy involves spanking or bondage, you’ll find all the tips and techniques you’re looking for right here.
37. How to Explore Fantasy Sexual Role Play: This step-by-step guide from About.com shares tips for getting creative, getting used to dirty talk and choosing costumes and props.
38. Role Playing Among the Boundaries of Your Bedroom: This blog encourages couples to get wild in their own bedrooms through role playing.
39. Bedroom Fun Ideas: This article lists role playing as one of the sexiest and most fun tricks for the bedroom.
40. Ideas, how-tos and scenarios: Couples interested in bondage and more serious role playing can get ideas and tips here.

Getting Comfortable

Lose your inhibitions and get in the mood for sex by reading these guides.

41. 9 Sexy Bedroom Makeovers: Set the mood by redecorating your bedroom according to this guide.
42. Top 10 Aphrodisiacs to Awake a Sexual Animal in Him: Whipped cream, oysters and even celery are listed as aphrodisiacs in this article.
43. Wicked Ways to Warm Up: Tips offered in this article include masturbating in front of each other and doing lots of teasing and touching.
44. Letting Go in Bed: Cosmo’s article about going "full-throttle" in bed helps you be in the moment and lose your inhibitions.
45. Morning Sex: How to Initiate?: College Candy’s Lauren from the University of Michigan doesn’t want you to be afraid of morning sex. Here, she shares tips for getting some before you start the day.

Being More Intimate

Sex isn’t just about the physical stuff: learn how to make a more meaningful connection with your partner here.

46. The Art of Touching: If you think sex is all about pounding and grinding, you’re in for a big surprise. Learn about the art of touch here.
47. Your Spouse: a Friend or Lover?: This article explores "kosher sex:" a balance between passion and intimacy.
48. 10 Ways to Become More Intimate With Your Lover: Tips here include making eye contact, breathing more deeply, role playing and trying new things.
49. The Secret to the Best Sex Ever: Intimacy, according to Lisa Love, can "vastly improv[e] your sexual experience." So. Get. On. It.
50. Sex With Your Eyes Open: Is it romantic or creepy? Consider this tip when trying to be more connected to your partner.

Lesbian and Gay Couples

For unique sex tips and games for lesbian and gay couples, look here.

51. Qtantra: This guide has tantric sex techniques and tips for lesbians.
52. How to: Massage: GayLifeUK doles out lots of great tips for mastering the massage.
53. Gay Sex Positions: Try out new positions with this guide that includes photos.
54. Fantasizing with your girlfriend: Lesbian couples wanting to spice up their sex life may want to consider different types of role play and fantasy games.
55. Lesbian Sex Tips: From oral sex to erotic massage and everything in between, WhereGirlsKissGirls shares all kinds of lesbian sex tips.
56. The Lovers’ Guide: Gay Sex Play: Gay men can read articles about being a better, more intimate and more adventurous lover here.

Toys and Extras

Get reviews, tips and more for implementing the use of toys, music and games into your sex life.

57. My Boyfriend and I Want to Spice Up Our Sex Life: This article is all about the fun of using sex toys.
58. Fun and Games: Lovingyou.com’s huge list of sex games and inspiration can be a great jumping off point for you and your partner.
59. Music for Sex: This post considers what it’s like to have sex to Madonna’s "Justify My Love" or a Garry Moore song.
60. Sex with Mirrors: Experience the novelty and surprise of using mirrors to enhance your sex life when you read all about it here.
61. Simple Love Secrets: This blog shares tips for better sex but also features new sex toys and accessories.
62. Sex Toy Guide: This all-in-one guide offers reviews, lets you browse sex toys based on female or male pleasure, and shares tips for using and picking out sex toys.
63. Afterplay: Possibly just as important as foreplay, afterplay can mean more intimacy or gearing up for another round.

Getting Out of Bed

Sex doesn’t have to be limited to the bedroom. Learn about other wild and crazy places to get it on.

64. 8 Erotic Encounters: Top Places to be Naughty: From the car to a shopping trip, these places are great for quickies.
65. Top 10 Places You’re Making Love: What’s sexier: the hood of a car, the top of a pool table, an elevator or a trampoline? Try all 10 and then add one of your own to the list.
66. The Worst Places for Public Sex: Before you get too carried away, check out this list of the worst places to get on, including bars and airplanes.
67. Crazy, Sexy, Strange: The Top 10 Wildest Places You’ve Had Sex: Why not try the library, on a conference table or the stairwell?
68. 102 Places to Have Sex: You’ll never run out of new places to do it when you print out this list.
69. 8 Great Places to Have Sex: From around-the-house hot spots to beaches and hotel rooms, this list has several great ideas.
70. Water Sex and Infections, STDs and Health Risks: Before you get frisky in the hot tub, read this article to learn about possible infections and STD risks.

Foreplay

Get in the mood and make your sexual experience last even longer with great foreplay.

71. Tantric Foreplay: From blindfolding to special massages, this post has great tips for tantric foreplay.
72. Your Tips for Great Foreplay: Readers share foreplay ideas like using ice and teasing during oral sex.
73. Foreplay Sex Tips: The Sex eZine emphasizes the importance of focusing on the legs, nibbling and playing simple games.
74. Hot Foreplay Tips: Read this article to find out what tips the Seduction Tutor recommends.
75. 3 Super Hot Foreplay Sex Tips that will Result in Unbelievable Orgasms for Any Relationship: If you want a major orgasm, try out these foreplay tips.
76. Sexual Foreplay Tips to Help Arouse Her: Foreplay is especially important for women, so men can use this guide to focus on getting their woman in the mood.
77. The Facts on Foreplay: Ask April shares a lot of tips for good foreplay, from being intimate and being physical to knowing when to say when.
78. Anatomically Challenged: Here’s a guide for guys who want to learn more about "what’s going on down there" with their female partners.
79. The Importance of Foreplay: Learn about overstimulation and basic tips for foreplay here.
80. Foreplay by the Signs: Did you know that Capricorns like to be on top, Scorpios want it "all day every day," and that Leos like costumes?

Exercises, Fitness and Self Sexuality

Sex isn’t just about pleasing your partner, it’s also about understanding your own sexuality. Below are tips and guides that will help you learn more about what turns you on, making you a better lover.

81. Kegel Exercise Center: Women and men can benefit from a woman doing this exercise.
82. How to Have Your First Orgasm: Many women have trouble reaching orgasm. If you want tips on climaxing during sex, read this article.
83. The Art of Masturbation: Learn how masturbation is actually "the secret to busting through mental blocks and finding new ways to rack up big orgasms during sex a deux."
84. In Pictures: 13 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life: From pills to the gym, Forbes’ guide has 13 different tips for being better in bed.
85. My Vagina Up Close: This article aims to uncover "the vagina superior myth" and different types of female orgasm.
86. Letting Go of Expectations: This article wonders whether or not losing weight equals a better sex life. Readers will also find tips on being comfortable with their own sexuality and having a healthy self image.
87. Exercise Can Spice Up Your Sex Life, The American Council on Exercise Says: Get a summary of this study, which holds that regular exercise improves sex.
88. 3 Secrets for a Steamier Sex Life: A heart-healthy diet, can-do attitude and regular exercise can really make your sex life better, according to this article.
89. Exploring Your Sexuality: Learn to ignore labels, be honest with yourself and explore your sexuality and sexual preferences.
90. How to Feel Sexy Everyday: Simple things like improving your posture and stretching can make you feel sexier.

Quizzes

These quizzes can help you understand what you’re craving in bed and what kind of lover you really are.

91. Are You a Lazy Lover?: Find out if you’re really giving your all in bed by taking this quiz.
92. Discovery Health Sex Quiz: Take this quiz to see how much you know about libido and intimacy.
93. Glamour Sex Quiz: Answer questions like "at what age are women supposed to be at their sexual peak" in this quiz.
94. iVillage Love and Sex quizzes: Take fun quizzes like "Are you too jealous?" and "Are you a sex goddess?" here.
95. What’s Your Tantric Sex IQ?: Find out how much you really know about this type of sex when you take this quiz.
96. Sex Positions Quiz: Here, you’ll learn all about sex positions and performance.
97. Sex Quiz: This psychology website offers a quiz to help individuals learn more about their sexuality and attitude towards sex.
98. Love Quizzes: From romantic compatibility quizzes to tests that find out what kind of lover you are, you’ll find it all here.
99. Sex Lingo quiz: Take this quiz to "see how fluent you are in the lingo of love." Other quizzes on the site include tests about birth control, gender, STDs and more.
100. Tickle Relationship Quizzes: This collection of sex and relationship quizzes can help you discover your sexual identity.

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